If you're new here, you may want to subscribe to my RSS feed. Thanks for visiting!On the list of the 7 biggest mistakes Life Coaches make in their businesses, a “lack of Inner-Outer Congruence” is at or near the top. Lack of Congruence basically means that you are not singing the same tune INSIDE as you are OUTSIDE. This is the single-most important factor keeping life coaches, business coaches and entrepreneurs small. This factor keeps you unable to act on opportunities, drive out fears, and grab success. I get to speak frankly on this subject while delivering some checks to the Post Office . . .
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Create your own mentoring jobs.
Are you “energetic and cheerful” while also being “incredibly patient”? Can you be a dedicated “friend, role model, and motivator” to a youth or a peer? Most mentoring jobs ask for a LOT. They want you to be everything for next to nothing. Being the good-hearted people that we are, it’s easy to overlook this disparity and simply give it our best.
And why not? Most of us find ourselves taking on mentoring jobs for free all the time with our friends, family, and acquaintances. When you have knowledge and experience, people will gravitate to you for guidance. I know, because I’ve been there many times in my own life. To be paid for something we do all of the time is a gift! This may feel especially true to those of us who are taking on mentoring jobs part time, simply to enjoy the experience.
It seems good in theory, anyway. The truth is that everyone has natural gifts and abilities that they take for granted.... (more...)
Law of attraction and affirmations are limited by your subconscious.
The Law of Attraction, affirmations, and many other self-help techniques are useful tools to keep you on track, but often they just don’t cut it. There’s a good reason for this, and it lies in your subconscious – or what the Hawaiians call your Ku, the inner child.
For years I’ve struggled with personal issues and negative patterns, throwing every technique I could at them. I dutifully recited and wrote affirmations as far back as my early teens, meditated daily, fought my negative thinking with Law of Attraction methods, and pushed myself as much as I dared.
But it wasn’t until I started using The Logical Soul® that I gained any traction. Why? Because all of those techniques were going against a decision made long ago by my subconscious mind. The subconscious makes decisions in ways that it thinks are logical and very important, usually based on past experience and survival. In the case... (more...)